Posts Tagged ‘death’

Learning From the Death Bed of a Jr. Higher

Friday, December 30th, 2011

John Newton, preacher, writer and hymn maker (he wrote Amazing Grace and How Sweet the Name of Jesus Sounds), had two adopted daughters. One of his daughters, Eliza, had a terribly painful and tragic disease known at the time as consumption; now known as tuberculosis. Newton adopted her knowing she had this sickness and desired nothing but the best for her body and soul. In writing a letter to his newly adopted daughter’s sickly parents John Newton said, “My chief desire for her is that the Lord may speak to her heart, draw her to himself, and seal her for his own. And then whether she goes to heaven at the age of twelve or a hundred and twenty is no great matter.” He was a good daddy who discipled and loved his daughter as he taught her the Bible, sang hymns with her, and prayed with her on every occasion. She grew in her understanding and love for Jesus through the good pastoring of Daddy Newton.

A little later, after taking her home from a six-week visit to the coast for therapeutic sea-bathing and breathing in the fresh sea air, Eliza fell gravely sick.

Jon Aitken tells of the events that took place soon after:

    “Newton kept a moving record of Eliza’s last days. They left a deep impression on him because of her peaceful serenity as death approached. Despite being in great pain, she repeatedly thanked her nurses and the Newton’s servants for all their kindness to her. She listened with smiles and nods to the prayers, passages of Scripture, and hymn verses that her adoptive father read out loud to her. When the doctor, on his final visit, asked her how she was, Eliza replied, “Truly happy; and if this be dying it is a pleasant thing to die.” She chose a text for her own funeral sermon – “Blessed are the dead that die in the Lord,” then prayed with a friend and a cousin, telling them, “See how comfortable the Lord can make a dying-bed.” Her last moments with Newton were poignantly described by him:

      About 5 in the afternoon she desired me to pray with her once more. Surely I then prayed from my heart. When I had finished she said Amen. I said, “My dear child, have I expressed your meaning?” She answered, “Oh yes,” and then added, “I am ready to say, ‘Why are His chariot wheels so long in coming (alluding to the chariot that took Elijah to heaven)?’ But I hope He will enable me to wait his hour with patience.” These were the last words I heard her speak.

A few minutes later the fourteen year old Eliza breathed her last and went home and entered her Master’s glory. Later, in reflecting upon the death of his adopted daughter, Newton wrote:

    The Lord has done great things for us since we came home. He sent a chariot of love for dear Eliza and we almost saw her mount it. The manner of her dismissal had a merciful effect on us so that, though it was in one view like pulling off a limb, yet upon the whole we felt that praises were much more suitable for us than complaints. I still weep for her more or less every day, but I thank the Lord, I have not dropped one tear of sorrow.(Jonathon Aitken, John Newton: From Disgrace to Amazing Grace, p. 282ff)

When I read this account of Eliza’s death I was cut to the heart. She was, to use today’s spectrum of education, barely out of Jr. High yet her words, her poise in the face of death, her comforting those around her death bed all sounded as if they had come from an old, seasoned saint. Praise God for the power of the gospel revealed in the death of this young woman. May we all marvel together by, “how comfortable the Lord can make a dying-bed” of even a middle schooler.

I hope and pray that the students God has given me the responsibility and privilege to serve may obtain such a view of Christ as Eliza’s. That, even in the face of death, they are found in peace because they are friends with the Prince of Peace. May we all take part in the lives of our youth to make them into the kind of Christians that face their death, and all the more their life, as Eliza did.

Don’t Make People Guess Where You Have Gone at Your Funeral

Monday, May 23rd, 2011

This week the young men of South Shores went out for a guys only weekend to Lake Elsinore. During our time out there we spoke of what God has created men to be and what He has called them to tend to. During one of the sessions I spoke to the guys about their funeral. I exhorted them to live the kind of lives that are genuinely gospel centered. They were told to live with their funeral in mind and to not make it hard for people to find and reflect on the evidences of Christ while they walked this earth. Sadly, funerals are places where many have to ignore much and and speak of little. Often times, funerals compel people to make much of things that did not characterize the deceased and to conversely embellish the little good there was. May it not be so with us.

J.C. Ryle reflects on death and what makes you a true believer:

    When we have carried you to your narrow bed, let us not have to hunt up stray words, and scraps of religion, in order to make out that you were a true believer. Let us not have to say in a hesitating way one to another, “I trust he is happy; he talked so nicely one day; and he seemed so please with a chapter in the Bible on anther occasion; and he liked such a person, who is a good man.” Let us be able to speak decidedly as to your condition. Let us have some solid proof of your repentance, your faith, and your holiness, so that none shall be able for a moment to question your state.

    Depend on it, without this, those you leave behind can feel no solid comfort about your soul. We may use the form of religion at your burial, and express charitable hopes. We may meet you at the churchyard gate, and say, “Blessed are the dead that die in the Lord.” But this will not alter your condition! If you die without conversion to God, without repentance, and without faith–your funeral will only be the funeral of a lost soul; you had better never have been born. (Holiness, 228-229)

Live in light of death and you will live well.

HT: Kevin DeYoung

How Should Christians Respond to Osama Bin Laden’s Death?

Monday, May 2nd, 2011

So. Osama Bin Laden is dead.

    What are you thinking about it? How are you responding to it? What are the feelings that are racing through your soul?

    Are they right? Are they Biblical? Are they Christian?

As Christians, we must always make sure that our feelings of grief or joy are theologically informed and not culturally conforming. What I mean by this is that Christians must always be intentional about seeing the world and the events within it through the lenses of the Bible. We cannot be swept by the current of common belief or media frenzies because they are not our authority; Jesus alone has that place in our hearts. His Word alone is to have the attention of our ears and the obedience of our hands. This is not easy because the world opposes our Master and this is not natural because our corrupt nature opposes our Master, but I assure you, this is the call of all Christians.

The question I want you to ask in light of Osama’s death is, “How should a Christian think about and respond to such an event?” I want you to leave what you may naturally feel is right or wrong (because our feelings are as sure of a guide as the wind), you must throw aside what your parents, your city or your school may think about it and you must submit your thoughts, feelings and response to what God has said in His Word. How does Jesus want us to look at, think about and respond to Osama Bin Laden’s death?

Let me direct you to some Christians who may help you think more Biblically on the subject.

    Justin Taylor has thrown down some quick thoughts and the thoughts of some other brothers in Christ HERE.

    Kevin DeYoung has also posted on the subject HERE.

Labor to think and act in accordance with God’s truth and not your best guess. Think, talk and walk like a Christian.

Lord, Remind Me That Death is Near

Thursday, April 28th, 2011

We will live wisely when we come to accept that our life on earth is brief and impermanent and God will always be King. May we pray that God shows us our few days so we may live them fully for Him.

    “Show me, O LORD, my life’s end
    and the number of my days;
    let me know how fleeting is my life.
    You have made my days a mere handbreadth;
    the span of my years is as nothing before you.
    Each man’s life is but a breath.
    Man is a mere phantom as he goes to and fro:
    He bustles about, but only in vain;
    he heaps up wealth, not knowing who will get it.” Psalm 39:4-6